Although not actually a phrasal verb (it is an idiom), it is still very useful for you to know the use of 'torn between' as you are likely to find it used in the Cambridge Advanced exam.

In addition to the meaning/definition, you will also find two examples of it being used (to help you better understand its use and the context it is used in).

This idiom is normally used with the verb 'to be' before it, although it can also be used with 'to feel' or 'to get'.

In order to remember it, make sure to make an example in your own words with it.

Use

To say you feel it is very difficult to decide what to do when choosing between two opposing options.

"So, what are you going to do? You really should tell your boss what she's done."
"I know. But she's my best friend. I'm TORN BETWEEN telling him and not saying anything. I need to think about it more before I decide what to do."

A lot of professional women today feel TORN BETWEEN their career and their children. Although they want to have a successful career, they often feel that by focusing on it they can't give their children the attention they need and deserve.

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